I'm a believer.

I also benefited from googling affair fog.

I think DB-ing is overall the right approach. My H says I've been "fantastic" througout his affair.

But, he remembers so little of what he's said and done to me, that I can't believe any of the things I've said or done have made much difference to him. My perspective is that it's just another reminder that you need to focus on yourself and GAL-ing.


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012