Also, spend some time thinking about how they would show up when you are challenged by the situations around you.
This might sound weird, ces, but could you give me an example of what you would do? When I have an example to refer to it helps me so much more.
Originally Posted By: ces67
Take control of your own life and own attitudes and focus on not allowing your H power over these. These things take so much longer than we want them to. But that's reality and IMO, its easier to deal with reality if you can recognize what it is.
I get this... and it doesn't seem so hopeless when I do realize the REAL time frame here. I've had little bits and pieces of feeling in control and I know what it feels like... lately I have just felt like I'm losing it again. Slowly trying to regain that feeling of loving life again and just being ok.
It's coming, just slowly.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
