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What a p@ssy. Glad to hear you're rising above it.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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yep...lmao couldnt have said it better myself. i would never stoop to that. this story has so much more to it. i've been keeping it to myself, cuz it is totally unbelievable.

i swear i could sell it

Dakota


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stuff has been going good. have had a great week with my kids. a fun weekend planned with them. havent heard from STBX which is nice. no drama there. i smile quite a bit thesee days and it feels good.


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Hey Dakota, man the OM calling you was a trip right? Mr. Bond is right... Good grief, we should team up on that book deal or double feature lifetime movie man between the two of us we'd sell a lot of tickets for sure! lol

Have a great weekend with the kids, you sound like you are doing great! I'm going to take a page out of your book :-)


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M in 05/2010
Separated 08/2011
Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8
I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5
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On another thread:

Originally Posted By: Dakota

...dont settle for this self hate, feeling sorry for yourself crap...


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Good advice.



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jack- i got you to thank man. you helped me see i wasnt the piece of sh1t she made me out to be. i am "not falling" i might have taken it different than you, but it helps. i am not mad any more. i am content with my sitch. i cant change it only myself. i like where i am heading. it is also nice to listen to whatever music i want however loud i want. i dont have the anxiety as much nnemore if at all. there have been roadblocks but stuff just seems to work out. i put my faith in god and do what i can, it isnt always how i want stuff to happen. funny thing is, when i sit back and think about it, it's usually better than i could have done alone.

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hey man. you have no idea about thi crazy sitch. i will write it down when i have some time. you have said stuff that has helped me. take some of your own advice. you are strong and smart. you just let your pride get in the way. you arent a failure. failures are quitters. there is a difference between giving up and knowing when you have had enough. for me, i have had enough. i am not her whipping boy any longer. i have resented her for that for a long time. i have resented myself for allowing it for a long time.

when you can step back and just look at the sitch without expectations and the poor me attitude, you will get better. read everything brit posts. lol she is one smart cookie. just cuz shes a girl doesnt mean she doesnt know how people in general are.lol there is wisdon here if you listen to it and figure out how to apply it to your life.

Dakota


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What?!?


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Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss
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what do you mean what? lol you okay bug?


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I think she was responding to your backhanded comment about women/Brit.

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lol..its all love! i listen to brit alot. whatever.. broken is a guy so am i. just cuz brit is a woman doesnt mean she cant help guyss. settle down everyone! lmao


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