Welcome to the board.

Moving to Florida is Pursuit and not the 180 that I would suggest.

Get out and GAL.
DETACH.
Believe none of what she says and half of what she does.
Have NO EXPECTATIONS.
Take care of yourself, breathe, eat, sleep, exercise.

You are on moderation right now on the forum.
SO post in small frequent posts until you get off of it.

Your W is giving you a GIFT.
THE GIFT OF TIME.

P.S.
How old are you and your wife?

Me-70, D37,S36