Hi, all of you

[Denver_2010]

Now, she met NEW MAN while we were having problems. And no she is not married to this man, or me..

Thanks, I was confused about who the OM was. That helps.

And FYI; 'doormat'? Don't let anyone but you tell you what that means. OK? What you are willing to do or endure is up to you.
NO.
ONE.
ELSE.

Got it?

EXACTLY.

I struggled with this a lot AA. But Jack is spot on.