In home separation? Off / On? Still WAW? Dunno

[chatterbug]

But it goes both ways.

There is

"you do not do anything around the house"

and you work 50 hours a week and then do the lawn and gardens for 10 hours , put kids to bed and your wife is a SAHM.

There you call her out on it.

vs.

you both work and you come home and wife does all the house work and takes care of the kids.

There you are called out on it and you better lead on correcting that. Either by getting a maid or doing the work.

vs.

your a SAHH and she is working 50 hours a week and coming home and doing the housework and dealing with the kids.

There she better call you out on it and you better make it your full time job until you get back to work.


There is legitimate complaints vs non-legitimate complaints.

What we as men need to learn is to communicate to both of them.

To be able to realize when we are doing the same.


But first things first.

Gaining your voice.