Great perspective!

H showed up at my work, though he didn't have the paperwork he came to drop off.

I was upbeat and pleasant. He asked if I was ok with still doing it if he agreed to the $250, to which I replied of course, I am here to help you whenever I can.

He opened up about why he is going, it is to baptize his nephew. He told me about the classes he would have to take, and that he was considering getting baptized himself. I told him that sounded exciting and that I was happy for him.

After he left I sent him a text. I thanked him for taking the time to calm down and then discussing the situation. I also told him that it said a lot about him that he was willing to see a different point of view and offer solutions. That's a first for him.

I'm ignoring the bad and praising the good. Goin elementary here folks wink


Me-31 H-24
D3,D2
M 4 yrs
WAW(me) 12/2011
role reversal 03/2012
(H)PA 3-6/2012
(H)D filed 6/2012
D deemed "inactive", closed 8/2012
I've moved on 9/2012