T~ I don't know, I got snapped at yesterday in the morning.... heaven forbid me show concern for his well being, he was pretty sick, looked and sounded horrible, and apparently me asking if I could get him anything was wrong because he snapped at me, "I'll be fine Heather!" (Wow he actually used my name.) I know, I know, wtf was I thinking trying to be empathic and kind, I'm such a bitch like that! LOL I'll do the only thing I can do, keep waiting, and praying and GAL.
professorfiancee~I'm glad you are able to laugh (and cry or be angry, or any other emotion we may feel through this) with me, it's good to know one isn't the one experiencing life in an alternate universe. I'm glad something good is coming out of this, if I can make anyone laugh or feel better in anyway then this whole crazy mess is a little bit less painful. That being said, I'm sorry you find yourself on this crazy roller coaster! I've been thinking, I will probably never ride another roller coaster again!! LOL j/k, I know those roller coasters have an end where I get off and everything is ok after all the ups and downs and twists and turns!! HAHA
Detaching is hard, I feel like that part is always a work in progress for me, but I'm getting better at it day by day. I also firmly believe H does things to try to get me mad, or fish for info, but I don't take the bait.... hence venting here, so I can plaster a smile on my face in front of him during some of the more annoying times. On the up side a lot lately I'm just like whatever, his choice, he has to deal with the consequences, not my problem.
You are doing good professorfiancee, as far as packing up his stuff, don't worry about his feelings, he sure isn't worried about yours! If it makes you feel better then good.
Tales of the Traveling Toothbrush, etc: Toothbrush still firmly planted on far side of the sink, must not get near my toothbrush, who knows what could happen, results could be disastrous!! I've already mentioned H being sick yesterday, he apparently came home from work early because he was here when I got home yesterday. In an effort to GAL and be mysterious my dear friend and I devised a plan.... Here's what we did. I picked her up around 6, H saw me leave. We went to the store, I picked up some OJ and Coke for H since he's not feeling well (again, I'm just so evil like that, darn being a good person!) Then I took her back to her house, went home put the stuff away. Went back to the computer and H came in, said something about he didn't want to steal the tv from me, if I wanted it I could use it (again, I don't really watch much tv these days...) I told him have at it and said btw I bought you some OJ and Coke. He looked startled and said you didn't have to do that... I told him I know but he looked so sick I felt bad and I hope he feels better. He mumbled thank you and then retreated to the living room. So after a bit I went and changed and my friend came and picked me up around 8 (H still doesn't know she has a new car so he has no idea who I went with if he looked out the window). H saw me getting ready because he came into the bathroom to brush his teeth while I was combing my hair. I'm sure the wheels were turning in his head. I didn't get home until 2:30am, again, unusual behavior for me on a work night, but he didn't know I have off today (last day of use it or lose it time). I'm sure he will be out late tonight, seems to be his pattern when I am. LOL For all the unpredictability of MLC there are still some predictable parts.... LOL
