Phew! Glad I let go of the crazy phone call issue. Why was I so hurt? Anyhow, after a crazy shift and mental distractions, I feel better about everything.
H could have been having a bad day or could still have some anger issues going on. Either way, the way that he chooses to handle his emotions are HIS choice. They have nothing to do with me, though I may be in the way when he feels like spewing. It's ok, I'm coated in anit-spew. It just won't stick or affect me
Not saying that he is child like, but one thing I keep in mind in dealing with my 2 and 3 yr old is that you can't teach manners with rudeness. No reason for me to ever be rude to him, regardless of the way he treats me. I don't have to interact with him when he is in crazy mode, and I don't need to feel guilty about politly drawing the line when it comes to the way I deserve to be treated.
Why did I make such a big deal about all of that again? I'm more interested in thinking about having chocolate creme pie for breakfast. isn't it so cool being an adult?
Me-31 H-24 D3,D2 M 4 yrs WAW(me) 12/2011 role reversal 03/2012 (H)PA 3-6/2012 (H)D filed 6/2012 D deemed "inactive", closed 8/2012 I've moved on 9/2012
