I haven't followed your sitch from the beginning, so pls forgive me if i ask something that you've addressed in an earlier post.

This are the options i see:

- Swap weeks rather than do an extra one so your expenses stay the same (this can only apply if your routine is the same from week to week)

- Use the same sitter as your H if his is cheaper

- Do the week as extra and get him to give you the remaining $100 later, or make it up to you financially by watching your kids during your week (as a babysitter)

Hope this makes sense...


Me 33, H 34
T 15 (on and off, 7 years this stretch)
M 4
DD 3
OW July 2010, IDLY - Oct 2010

1st sep 28/5/11-14/8/11 (my idea)
OW confirmed 25/11/11 (H travelled with OW 26/11/11)
I moved out 3/12/11