Take your focus off the mlcer.

They are not your life.

They may have been a significant part of your (and your children's) life but they are not the "end all".

Live YOUR life !

If they find you on YOUR journey, great !

If they don't.......

So what?

"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13