I get your point Jack. But I would say, that it is something she needs to figure out and see if I am the person she felt in love with.
And to answer your question, I am new to this but I do feel confident about wanting to be the one she met 10 years ago. I know it sounds that I just want to do this for her, but is actually also about me. I do not like this me, I do not like this feeling on my chest. Yes, I am working on my self also, the GALing I have been doing has helped a lot and has me recovered some of my self esteem.
I am a believer of God and fearful of Him. Today, He wanted to let me know exactly what is going on with W and OM. It is my guess God gave me the opportuniy to let W know my feelings and also for her to be put on a perspective. My W is the kind of person that needs guidance on many stuff otherwise she would dwell on a situation forever without making a desicion. That is why I told her that she already knows me, and that my promises are almost always met by me. Again I told her that she has known me and that I am way better person than what she is picturing me.
God bless you all, am Me.. Specially Me, I need his wisdom, and thru you guys, He has been giving it.. Thanks..