When you accept that fact, we can go to counseling with the same goal of moving on in a spirit of peace and mutual support and appreciation for the good things we've shared.
You are currently saying that your goal is to stay married which is not a possibility." And it goes on...
I haven't responded. I see it as a power play (although in reality it's running away) and also a strong effort to repel me. If he puts his foot down and puts conditions on, maybe he can force me into accepting his way.
My impulse is to respond by simply saying that I am committed to working on myself to bring about good changes and that the door is always open for us to work on the marriage together should he change his mind. I have all the faith in the world that it is possible to rebuild the trust and connection that we lost.
Thoughts on that?
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.
"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page
