Maybe turn the tides on her a little with this....
What is the ONE thing, that she would not expect you to do in that situation ???
Find a way to respond, without responding...if that makes sense to you....
Find a way to turn that negative into a positive for you...
I am pretty happy with my delayed reaction....I text her something like "thx for the flash...next time I'll return the favor!" I think it was fun and lighthearted....I just want to start looking for fun things so when they happen, I'm right there with it.
Originally Posted By: Mach1
Sounds a bit like something that I read on a Divorce Busting website....
Yeah, I've heard that website's pretty good
Originally Posted By: Mach1
You didn't expect marriage on the first date to Chuck-E-Cheese did you ???
Live that way now....
LOL...excellent point! And yes, definitely trying...succeeding a little more every day!