Originally Posted By: Mach1
Maybe turn the tides on her a little with this....

What is the ONE thing, that she would not expect you to do in that situation ???

Find a way to respond, without responding...if that makes sense to you....

Find a way to turn that negative into a positive for you...



I am pretty happy with my delayed reaction....I text her something like "thx for the flash...next time I'll return the favor!" I think it was fun and lighthearted....I just want to start looking for fun things so when they happen, I'm right there with it.

Originally Posted By: Mach1

Sounds a bit like something that I read on a Divorce Busting website....


Yeah, I've heard that website's pretty good wink

Originally Posted By: Mach1

You didn't expect marriage on the first date to Chuck-E-Cheese did you ???


Live that way now....


LOL...excellent point! And yes, definitely trying...succeeding a little more every day!


M:44 W:42
M:15
S:19, D:16, S:14, D:12, S:6
BD: 2/14/11
D Final: 6/25/13