I just composed this message however it looks like sayitaintso touched on one of the subjects,
Are you saying that after 90 days the D will be final? If so, I would like to mention a couple things. First, you don’t have any control over the timeline. Well maybe, that’s if you contest it however it sounds like you made the right decision. So the timeline “is what it is”. So you should view it as one of those things you DON’T have control over. Do you get what I am saying? I am guessing you weren’t born yesterday you know the old cliché term, focus on the things YOU have control over.
Going back to the posts of mine and others on your thread. I would focus on yourself, avoid R talks with W. I think you’re getting the drift on the right things to do. Every sitch is different however just because you have a “deadline”???? So what! It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t stick to the DB basics, IMO. Who knows, you never know if W might start to come around in the final hour. To be brutally honest I don’t want to get your hopes up however I genuinely feel it’s more likely to happen if you chill out, leave her alone, let her process everything and stick to the basics.
