Trying 180 while husband is at war

[KyJoe]

KMP - Sorry you are here, but thought I would let you know I have been on the other side of this (I deployed in '08). He is probably feeling very far removed from you but has alot of other stuff on his mind. You have a couple of opportunities to show him love without pursuing. Be supportive (but do not go overboard)carepackages are good and be welcoming when he comes home on leave (if he hasn't already) or upon his reurn for good. There is not alot you can do inbetween, but if you withdraw your support completely (going dark)he will feel abandoned by you.