Consider going for full custody of the children or at least 50% split.

Work with your L on what you are legally bound to do with alimony , division of assets and debts, and child support.


When you look at it from a pure logical point of view. You will know then if you are good to go or in for a tough few years.

If you know you will have a harder time starting over. Take more of the possessions ( such as kitchen stuff.... )

Either way you will be able to rebuild.


As for DLS's opinion to fight the OM. That is just plain stupid. All you need now is to be charged with assault when your going through a D.

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