One other thing I want to focus on is being lighthearted and fun. While my W was otp this morning and getting dressed, she turned to me and flashed me. I was just reflecting on it and wow was that a missed opportunity to have some fun.
Ya think ???
Maybe turn the tides on her a little with this....
What is the ONE thing, that she would not expect you to do in that situation ???
Find a way to respond, without responding...if that makes sense to you....
Find a way to turn that negative into a positive for you...
And is sure is better than those long showers you take : )
Originally Posted By: BD
So recap:
- No controlling behaviors - No expectations - No pressure (i.e. no R talk) - Have FUN!
Good list....
Sounds a bit like something that I read on a Divorce Busting website....
Quote:
When you think about it, this really is like when you start dating someone and it reminds me of something MrBond said to me when I first posted...being that person again when we first got together. Yeah, there's responsibilities and there are things to worry about, but my list above should be the "big rocks" in the jar.
It is about changing the things that you don't like about yourself...
Making better choices in life...
Dropping the co-dependant behaviors...
And just live your life...
Were you this anal when you met her ?
You didn't expect marriage on the first date to Chuck-E-Cheese did you ???
