Thanks one and all (wow that many!)

Thanks especially to serenity, Starsky and scaredsilly for the specific points

This I promise. This will be faced from a position of calm and power - let her work THAT bit out.

I'll listen to what she says and watch the clock ticking down if it's only to do with L talk. If it IS L talk then my tame pitbull will be asked to join in the party. Fair IS fair and the trigger with the L was firmly pulled by the W.

My interest is how in high heaven did the L send the second email when my W was with her Ma since a week this Wednesday gone? How did the W give the L instructions without being in the L's office (yes it works that way here - not by phone etc).

Well she had an extra day with an upset Ma to deal with.

I can hope can't I?

Honing my fire walking skills now serenity.

Thanks honey!

(((((Hugs))))