i don't think a divorce can be stopped but i advised my H that, should he decide on D, i would be FAIR but not GENEROUS. IOW, he will get what he's entitled to and i will get what i'm entitled to, no more, no less. i will not give away my future to be "nice", again. i also told him that i wlll not dicuss nor negotiate with him; only with third parties.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing