Saw this on FB from "hippie peace freaks". It resonates with me:

To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.

Lewis Smedes

Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway