One other thing I want to focus on is being lighthearted and fun. While my W was otp this morning and getting dressed, she turned to me and flashed me. I was just reflecting on it and wow was that a missed opportunity to have some fun. A little late, but I did text her in a flirty kind of way about it. I know this is something she wants and I've been a stick in the mud way too much. I deserve this type of fun as much as she does, so it will be another focus area for me.
So recap:
- No controlling behaviors - No expectations - No pressure (i.e. no R talk) - Have FUN!
When you think about it, this really is like when you start dating someone and it reminds me of something MrBond said to me when I first posted...being that person again when we first got together. Yeah, there's responsibilities and there are things to worry about, but my list above should be the "big rocks" in the jar.
