I understand the need to let her go intellectually. It is emotionally that I am struggling with the idea. I have so much invested in our relationship emotionally that the idea of moving away to draw her back in is a hard one to digest. I think that going dark would be a good idea except that I am watching our kids while she works and I am unemployed, so whenever I do that I have to see her twice a day. I have tried just making small talk with her, but she is not really interested in that so we mostly just sit in silence on the two trips between her job and where I am staying right now.


M 39, W 34
M 15
S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6
Separated: 7/2/2012
Served: 7/10/2012
Divorced 11/5/2012