I am past the point of not eating and sleeping well. I really am in a good place these days. I get a lot of support from family, many friends and even co workers. I joined a church support group and have made new friends there as well. I stay busy doing things with my kids and friends. When all of this first happened, I was in such a low, low place that I barely functioned. I knew I did not want to stay there, but it is hard to get out of that. Detaching has helped that. I am worth more than being in that place!! I have myself and my kids to take care of. H can make an old fool of himself without my help!
I am taking things one day at a time. Future finances are still a big concern but it's out of my hands. That doesn't mean I've stopped worrying, just that I'm postponing putting a lot of thought into it.
Great job Jannie. When we realize that we really only have control over ourselves it can be a big realief.
