I love your posts and sense of humor! Same sort of crap going on here except mine has a girl who is 21 years young than him. But he can't go a day without contacting me. Than it is the passive aggressive crap or the extreme jealousy or the hours of just talk. Even when he is in the same apartment with her he is on the computer talking with me for 2-5 hours at a stretch. Sure is a great relationship they have! Must be love! Just strikes me as pitiful. I am detaching as that always seems to be a work in progress as he attempts to suck me back in to the world of feral cats and cuckoos. I have not gone there for some time. Now he wants to spend Saturday with me and a week at a university doing research and then stay here a couple days after that. I will believe it when I see it. So full of crap usually that I believe nothing he says. Yesterday I packed up his stuff and put it in the garage, but today I am having second thoughts about that as I do not want to cause he any unnecessary pain when he seems to be reaching out to me a bit. Felt good when I did it though. But thanks again for the similar stories and all the laughs you have given me when I was so angry or sad! You have helped more than you will ever know.