I Have 90 Days To Save My Marriage

[NASCARDaddy]

I really do want to fight for my marriage, but I don't know how. One of my big concerns is that by her filing and only having 96 days now until the court will consider the petition is that if I don't try and get her to sit down and talk about things I feel like I am in a game where the clock is running but my team is not allowed to take the field. I am worried that if I don't push her to work on things that inertia will set in and the divorce will just happen, not because we could not work things out but because we just never got around to trying. That scares me because I still love her and I know that deep in her heart she still loves me. How do I deal with that anxiety? Because I am sure that no matter how much I GAL and detach that sense of frustration and desperation will continue to come through and maybe keep pushing her further away.