Four stages of forgiveness: 1. uncovering your anger 2. deciding what to do about it 3. thinking about your offender in a different way 4. discovering new things about yourself and the world
Reading it this way, it's really a tenet of DBing.
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011