New to this and hating it.

[Jannie]

H sent me a text stating he had stopped at the house to drop off some movies. No one was home. I did not respond. He called about an hour later to see if I got the message and we spoke briefly. I told him S was missing him. Not to guilt him, just to give him the facts. He stated that was part of the reason he stopped by.

A couple of hours later, he stopped by again. I did not know he was coming. He took S outside to spend a few minutes with him. When they finished, he came inside but would not sit down, just stood at the door very uncomfortable. He left shortly thereafter.

A little later, he called me because D was not answering her phone and he wanted to talk to her. I relayed the message to her. He then sent a text to apologize for waking me up and I told him I was glad he saw S.

No huge improvements, but at least he saw S and we spoke in a civil manner.