for myself 1. to continue doing my yoga at least 3 times per week 2, to get to bed earlier - be able to fall asleep by 11 pm 3. to finish clearing the clutter in the main house - almost done with that but a day's worth more to go 4. if it's not too hot, to get started on organizing the garage 5. to work on being more patient with my brother, who continues to challenge me - try to have at least one conversation out of 3 be positive (grin) 6. plan and go on a little trip with s alone. working on not feeling so overwhelmed to go all the way to Co to Rocky Mtn, Nat. Park and camp there on our own. I'm finding the idea a little daunting - doing the 10 hr drive alone . maybe a place a little closer would be better, but i want to go up into the mtns so bad i can taste it!!
with h 1. still not listening - getting nervous and talking too much myself. need to practice more stfu technique 2. continue to be consistently friendly and present 3. i don't know where he's at, but continue with goal of the 3 of us doing little things together, like a meal or a little outing 4. using every interaction as much as i can, as an opportunity for a positive interaction 5. i would like h to invite me up to his studio to see what he is doing
i'm going to focus on these goals as much as possible during this next 2 weeks.
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
