look , the calmer you are the better you can handle things.
don't spoil all the work you have put into this by getting defiant and fighting with her.
remember - dropping the rope means dropping it. the more you resist the more she will resist.
try to get your lawyer to make any delays that he can come up with
i don't know if this is the right advice, but i can't imagine that staying calm, collected and dignified to the very end couldn't be the right thing to do
if you're not ready for the chat - tell her you have other plans and sorry you can't drop them at the last minute.
if the chat does take place - be nonchalant, keep looking at your watch as if this is utterly boring and taking up your precious time, and what is there so important to talk about that the L's can't deal with - and you really need to get to where you are going , are we done yet? since this was so last minute
don't show her you're hurt, or upset or anything - just that this is not such a big deal.
she's coming for a chat to check out where you are at - if she can push your buttons. don't let her.
you can do this, you know. just act as if..
go meditate - it will help you get grounded:)
take care of yourself first and focus on being in a really good place when she gets there.
zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
