Marriage = busted. Help me bust my divorce too!!

[mamabird]

Bond, you are so smart! Yes, he TOTALLY runs away from pain. I have seen him literally walk out of a situation when it gets too much for him, time and time again. He is close to his Dad but I'm not sure how he handled conflict. At any rate, this is for sure his M.O.

Since we are separated, it's hard to make things lighter. I'm currently spending some of the time at my parents, but I intend to move back into my house at the end of the summer. I doubt H will like this, but I wasn't the one who wanted to leave. We have a little bit of a conversation going now over email and it's gotten into "you did this, you did that," but I think I will try to end that by saying we are even and let's move forward. Someone on my other thread suggested that I "as if" as if we were reconciling. Not a bad idea.