Nascar, I feel for you man!! Believe me, I do know what you’re going through. I have a lot of my shortcomings and I am no veteran to this site however I am somewhat observant and there’s a few things that stood out to me.
First off, work on finding a job. It sounds like you are but maybe you need to do more. No excuses, find something. It might help get your mind off your sitch. A little money probably wouldn’t hurt either. Also work on GAL, if you don’t have many friends, find them. If you’re not outgoing, work towards it. You seem like you’re ready to fight. You seem like you’re ready to push yourself.
I am glad you found this site. There’s a lot of caring and helpful people here. It sounds like you have an open mind, that’s great! You’re going to need it if you want to learn and improve. My prayers are with you my friend.
Rough
Me(M):38 W:43 Together: 14 Married: 11 D:4 S:8 W wanted separation 5/5/12 Stopped living together 5/5/12 Currently DB’ing
“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude”. Thomas Jefferson
