Zig, it's clear to me that despite your "keep on challenging me" posts, you really only want cheerleaders on your thread. I'll spend my time elsewhere, and leave you to your picnic. I tried to jump in to challenge your thinking and offer a different perspective, and because frankly your mentor abandoned you and I felt sorry about that.
Ro, I'm not sure why you have such a strong reaction to a strong male voice, or why a simple bump of a 2x4 post would set you off do much, but I suspect it has more to do with you than it does with me.