jks, your thread is pretty "hot" and I'm appreciating all the advice you are getting as I can benefit too.

I don't have any advice tonight. Just wanted to tell you I'm thinking about you and hoping you are able to get to a stable place again where you can think clearly.

Yes, you have confusion, emotion and sometimes the wrong focus. Don't we all?

But you are an incredibly strong woman. I see you with a heart of love and gold just searching for the opportunity to rebuild a stable family. It looks like for a while that stability won't include H, but you are there for your kids through it all! Imagine the appreciation they will have, when they are older, for that gift you are giving them now.

Many hugs to you tonight and hoping your faith and friends will continue to be of a great help to you during this difficult time. ((((jks))))


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway