The example I am setting: the best one I am capable of - to take the high road. To show my family that even though it is a terribly painful thing for all of us, I can be strong, not fall apart, put a genuine smile on my face and help them through their tough times. That I am not using anger to justify my position in this sitch. That even when h is spewing at me, I can stay calm and dignified. That no matter which way it eventually goes, I can carry us through this, and when our s grows up, he can look back at this time and remember that his mom was strong and faced this well. THAT is the sort of example I am setting.
I think that is a helll of an example Zig. I would be proud to have you as my mom.
