I was the one initiating the talks. The last one was on Sunday before I found this site. Since then I have avoided contact with her as much as possible.

I have not read DR. I have read lots of other books in a similar vein and my therapist has DB prominently displayed on his book shelf. However getting a copy of DR is difficult since my money is non-existent and our joint checking account was stretched thin even before all of this started.

M 39, W 34
M 15
S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6
Separated: 7/2/2012
Served: 7/10/2012
Divorced 11/5/2012