What sort of example do you feel that you are setting for your child by allowing your H to continue an A right under your nose?
This is always the toughest part. ^^^
Starsky, zig is GALing & doing her own thing mostly (from what I read...maybe I missed something), so how is this under her nose? I don't think her H lives at home. (Again, unless I missed something)
We all know what your point of view is on all this. Lord knows you post it on enough threads. LOL And maybe I'm taking this wrong, but you "insinuating" that zig is a bad example for her child by letting her husband work through his own "mess" and going about her own life is just too much!
You have very good advice, but some of it often gets lost in what I call "forceful writing". You can give your opinion, but do you have to make people feel bad (or weak) if they don't follow it?
Just an observation. Sorry for the hijack, zig. I seem to keep doing that! I think the heat is getting to me. LOL
