Still Afloat and moving Forward

[BeingMe]

According to S25, I got the above quote wrong, and it's an old one. Oh well, the sentiment stands, I think.

Life in City of C is going okay. Went to visit a friend last night and it ended up being a ladies' night out, with three other friends coming over. It was fun, until H called to say that there is mold in the bathroom. He was replacing the window above the bath/shower, and it seems it's been leaking long enough to become moldy. It's not very big, but it has to be dealt with this week.

His problem now, because I'm a long way from there. Meantime, since I requested that we get a mediator and move toward D, my H has been very friendly on the phone ... and he phones every day. I don't care anymore. He's had plenty of time to do the right thing, and work on our M. He was supposed to be here last week, and I will not ask him when he's going to arrive. When friends ask, I just say, "I don't know." And, now we have mold. I guess he won't come at all now. I did suggest he come when I go home, so we won't have to be in the same place. He was adament that that was not the issue. Yeah, right!

I've been seeing friends, getting comfortable in the condo, walking along the river, seeing grandchildren and D25, shopping for condo, etc. It's been like a real holiday in some ways. I am homesick now, and looking forward to going home mid-August, preparing for uni, seeing my D19, and catching up with friends there.

So, all in all, having a good time, and slowly, but surely getting used to feeling 'not married'. It's time.

Hope everyone else is enjoying the summer. Time for my walk.