Should I initiate R talk?

[Arsene]

Thanks Lilly,

I guess you are right. I've already figured out three ways I can go. I guess it's just up to me now.
The thing is, they say to go with what works and so far, the friendly approach seems to work. All I need to do is make sure that I don't put any pressure on her and that I do none of the pursuing behaviour.
I'm not sure what she'll make of my week-long NC or how she's been taking it so I'm going to look for some signs, positive or negative to figure out how to proceed next.
Friendly on arrival worked. How did NC work? It did for me )and it was meant for that). It allowed me to figure a few thing out and to (hopefully) manage to detach a bit more than i was.
I was hoping for a few more comments to get different perspectives before going back but I think I'll stick for what works for now and adjust if need be.
I'm off in a few hours so I guess time will tell.

Thx again Lilly. Hope tomorrow goes well for you.