JKS, Thanks for your words of encouragement. They mean a lot. My W filed but told me she hasn't done anything to serve me yet. I think it has something to do with them still not knowing for sure if this is what they want. When all of this first happened W & I lived together for 3 months without her getting her own bank acct, moving out or filing. I really do think they are not sure plus it probably is nice to have the security of the spouse still there while they get a little "freedom" to what they please. I agree it's not fair to the LBS but it also gives us hope that maybe they do want us. I don't know, just some thoughts. I do know that we need to be happy too.
