Ultramarathon finish line or hallucinations?

[jbnati]

KG thanks for stopping in.

I believe it's morally wrong and disrespectful of marriage as an institution and I want to set an example for my kids that I stand for my beliefs. H doesn't see anything wrong as he thinks our M has been dead for a long time anyways. I know I will not change his mind.

I want to protect my kids from more confusion re. our sitch. H doesn't believe they are confused...

I completely hear you on this. This is almost identical to what I have going on. I don't know if it's different or not, but my W would've been mortified if someone had told her a few years ago she would be doing what she's doing right now.

I think that at this point, I have stated my POV and disagreement and it's there for the record. Whatever H does, I cannot control it.

I think this is the least we can do, and in some cases it may be all we can realistically do. I look at as a responsibility to at least state our position.

IDK, but I believe that kids are smart. Even if you don't express it outwardly, they will sooner or later see how things happened and how each of you felt and behaved about this whole issue.

I believe kids are smarter than we give them credit for. I believe my S knows what's going on. I don't think my W is fooling him.

JB - I meant to your son, not your kids!!!
(I read someone else's sig while writing to you)

Sorry!!!

No worries. I knew you had it straight.