I think you are doing extremely well. It is just a testament to giving space and time... (even if you're forced to), really does work in your favor. In the future, when you see W, just be friendly but do not linger around her. Be the first to say good-bye and keep interactions short. That way you won't say things that you'll regret later and you'll leave her wondering.


Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.