Originally Posted By: GH31

BTW, Denver probably doesn't want to ever discuss OM again, at least not when his amygdala isn't pulsating (correct me if I'm wrong, Sir).


I would be ecstatic if I never discussed or thought of OM again. You are correct.

Originally Posted By: GH31
But once something seemingly trifling and inconsequential triggers him (the worst thing about them is that they can take you completely by surprise), his instinct will be to do battle with his wife, rehash everything and it will do far more harm than it ever will good.


Yup. No question that no good will ever come out of doing battle with my W over this issue. As Harrier reminded me, I cannot hold this over her head.

Originally Posted By: GH31
One of the great things about piecing is that the brain is plastic. Over a period of a couple of years you really notice that.


Interesting way of putting it.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce