Thank you very much for your support, I really appreciate it. It also sounds like you’re doing a great job working through this. (Well, the best we can, right?)
While reading your thread it looks like you were given some great advice from 2thepoint and Mrbond. I sometimes wonder if Mrbond should change names with 2thepoint, if you get my drift.
Carnac, you sound like me in a lot of ways. You seem very open minded to learning and taking and implementing idea’s from others on this board, that’s great. I am sure you’ve read some threads with some really closed minded people. Arrrrrr, those kind of people get under my skin sometimes. They will not change no matter what. And guess what, there failed relationship have no chance of changing either.
While going over your sitch I noticed that you were questioning where you went wrong in your marriage. It’s my assumption that we all have to mentally absorb our pitfalls if we want to succeed at our 180’s. I think my biggest pitfall was completely summarized in one of the post’s on my thread. It’s the one where I responded to my W’s email. I really needed some help composing my email response to W. I am grateful that I received some help from accuray. He’s very sharp and he did a great job helping me articulate my thoughts in an eloquent way.
I also noticed that you might hold on to the conversations with your W a bit too long. That’s great that your noticing those things. We have to realize and be aware of these things if we want to improve right?
