You, my friend, have had a wicked hard couple of years. It's a shake up on top of all that, most certainly.
But you are strong and the pendulum is swinging back in your favour (though it might not seem that way now), and there's a lot of really strong, caring people here. You will be up and you will be down, but in the end no matter what the outcome, you will be OK.
Calm blue ocean.
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011