Hi Sandi2. I've been back home after 7 months of living apart from kids and wife. We are having setbacks. Both of us snooping and both of us having reservations. I moved back and we swept things under the rug. My W refuses a counselor even though I suggested that even during goods times. My wife currently giving me a silent treatment and refuses to talk about Sitch. I have an email I crafted to validate her feelings but I also have some feelings Ive wanted to convey to her and never have. Seems like me and her are both struggling with trust and don't know how to get it back on track. Of course my actions. But also her actions which I know I can control. I just feel we never talk and that communication is 95% of marriage problems.
You've commented before and I really appreciate your honesty.
I continue to council for myself. I'm looking for a day job and giving up my company. I've also been dieting and eating healthy. I do GAL but not quite enough. Young kids and never get them in bed before 9.