No More LRT, but slow progress

[LostIn407]

I don't understand what you are saying.

If I step out of line? That would assume that I am living my life according to her rules, which I am not.

I am living my life, for me and my Ds. While it is nice to have the W around a lot more, that isn't changing how I live my life. I am in a transition phase right now when I can start to rebuild. I concentrated on me with the working out, new clothes, new attitude for the last couple of months. Now I am furnishing my surroundings (new bedroom set, new items for the house, new pictures, new car, etc).

If my W is done with me and no longer sees me as a romantic interest/partner, so be it. It's time to move on.

But to say my life revolves around what I think she thinks of me, is borderline insulting. To say she will go with another OM if I step out of line is insulting.

The improvements I made were for me. I learned a long time ago not to change who you are for someone else.