"Not good. Seems like I was doing okay for a while and now I'm falling apart at the seams. I don't want to loose her, I would do anything to get her back. We have to go to court tomorrow for prelim stuff. Then wait 6 months. God I need your will and hand to come down and help me and W."
I have always been puzzled as to why people can't take advice. It is an odd thing to think about. So many people before us have walked thru the situation we find ourselves in.. and yet when they tell us the stories of how they did it we doubt them and don't listen. Odd isn't it?
After reading and posting here for a while you get pretty good at seeing why people are having a hard time. Seriously.. take the comment you posted as it stands on its own. Read just that. Now think if someone was saying that to you. Better yet take away that your comment is even about a marital issue and take out the word her and replace it with "something". Based on that.. what advice would you give to the person saying that?
Seems you live in a state with a waiting period. What are your plans for that time?
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
