I think the best thing is that she has a lot of friends to talk to. Of course the best thing would be just for her Dad to recognize her pain. I doubt that will happen anytime soon.
As I said, we do talk a lot but when she gets frustrated with me, she will go to her friends and siblings. She is very close to S16 though he also loves to get her riled up. He is her second go to person.
If it seems to be a constant thing then I will look into some more help. Right now it seems to bubble up now and then. This is the first time though that she has said anything about the divorce where her Dad couls see it.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory