Galbaby - you're right, of course. I used to live in Australia. They are (in general) a tough bunch, and I know they aren't likely to spend much time exploring their feelings or signing up for T. I loved Australia (really!) but noticed that in some ways, like the work and home life of men, it reminded me of American in the 1960s and 1970s. I just in this case, it's an added challenge.
TVS - it's too bad about your H's best friend. He sounds like a good influence.
